like, if I’m nice (as I would prefer to be), a man might get the wrong impression, but I’m also afraid to be rude or do anything to upset them so I have to be the right kind of nice or polite - it’s a real double-bind, and something I don’t experience with women
I honestly have a hard time telling difference between good customer service and flirting
If they’re getting paid to be there, best to assume it’s not flirting.
^ this tbh
I actually have the same problem as a woman - was she being really friendly or just doing her job? I just assume she is doing her job.
If there was genuine interest, then she’ll initiate by giving you her details. That’s my philosophy anyway.
thanks for your comment, but unfortunately this community has a rule that only women are permitted to comment or post, so please don’t comment further
hope you understand 💛
Ok that’s fair
Oh wait sorry not sure what to do now
Thanks for your work in this thread Foxglove
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