I am wondering some thoughts on this. (US)
We’ve lived in this house for 6 years. It’s a great place, but we always figured we’d probably move again at some point. Now, we have a decent amount of stuff (mostly due to my 1000’s of hobbies, we like to do a lot of shit because life should be fun) so I really hate moving.
My thought is-hey, if we end up moving, lets just move really far away. Most of our families will be gone in a few years and there’s not really a reason to stay here. I could probably give up a lot of my large items if it meant moving to a really interesting new country (thinking one of the Nordic countries, my grandparents were from there). Still, it would probably be 6 years before we would actually move.
Just wondering how crazy this really is. I think my SO feels like it’s a joke when I bring it up.
Sounds like you and your SO need to have a long, serious talk about how you see the next 20 years playing out.
You don’t need a month by month schedule, but you should be on the same page about what is and isn’t something you’d both want.
They dont see what’s happening in the world and if I bring it up they want to change the subject. They dont like people getting up in arms about anything and just like to stay out of it. They won’t ever discuss politics of any kind.
I know they want to move to a place even farther out of town which would kill any friendships I have, so why not go even farther and be in a beautiful better country was my thought.