My partner has severe and persistent bouts of depression. We met on Tinder. Went out on a lot of dates together and had a lot of fun. Been together for about five years now.

We also had a lot of talks about what living with depression means, what kind of support I would or could give, etc. What kind of coping methods they use. I’ve grappled with depression myself here and there so I’m incredibly empathetic when they’re feeling particularly bad. We just support each other.

Depression can look really different and present differently in different people.

Solorio first saw the unnamed woman at her workplace in February 2025 and “immediately became obsessed with her,” the DA’s office said.

He would show up at her job multiple times a day, loitering outside as he waited to approach her when she left, according to prosecutors. Solorio asked the woman out multiple times and sent her a letter in which he said he “wanted to take her to Mexico,” the DA’s office said.

He harassed the woman for several weeks and learned where she lived, according to prosecutors. On the night of May 21, 2025, he went to her house, and after her father left the home, he broke in, the DA’s office said.

The woman woke up to find Solorio in her bedroom, sucking her toes, according to prosecutors.

“Although terrified, the victim managed to talk with Solorio in a friendly demeaner [sic] in an attempt to keep him calm and de-escalate his actions,” the DA’s office said.

Holy shit, that’s terrifying. I can’t even imagine how she must have felt to wake up to that after being stalked by this creep.

I don’t love it either in general, but they chose those words very specifically since this was not a criminal case.

Welcome! It definitely is quieter in ways here, but I find that actually engaging in conversation is better. There’s more real people here.

But this place also has the downfalls that early Reddit and 4chan had. Still better than current Reddit by miles!

Sex. Sex is really awesome while high on weed. Especially lazy, exploring each other’s bodies, no time schedule to keep type of sex.

I’ll second Iced Raktajino and say house duties. I love getting a little high and tackling the kitchen or organizing the closets. Or cooking, cooking can be very satisfying while high.

Walks! Going out for a walk is super lovely. Tune in to all the sounds of the trees, animals, neighbors, etc. Take note how the ground feels under your feet and the cool air in your lungs.

Reforming our education system is certainly one prong of a multi-pronged approach to a potential solution.

I just simply cannot sign on for more torture and rape and dehumanization no matter who is on the receiving end.

You’re so smart, you tell me what argument I’m making.

What argument am I making?

Buying what?

Not with that defeatist attitude ;)

I thought we were having a casual conversation about this character of a user that has popped up on Lemmy again today and what it means to build a very personality-forward post history. I didn’t know we were doing a nuh-uh, yuh-uh thing.

You then came in hot and accused me of boomer behavior so yeah.

I’ve got some extra Advil for your feefees, too!

You had to really dig to find that info lol. Did you have fun?

Yeah bro, I comment on Lemmy to gain self esteem, you got me. You’ve had it worse than everyone in the world and you’re allowed to wish death and torture on everyone. I’m not stopping you. Go for it, dude.

…what?

Hey man, sorry if you got real wrapped up in your crush on Violet or whatever and this is just too real for you hahaha

Nah that’s your role evidently.

now. every time i have sought help or justice, i have gotten fuck all. so explain if society (that includes all y’all fuckers) treats me like i’m worthless, i shouldn’t drive everywhere drunk and try to kill y’all when i travel. it’s a fair trade after all.

Let’s just all kill each other until there’s nothing left then. Fuck it. Nuke it all. It’s a fair trade after all.

Lol the exact type of person I keep describing to you over and over again - A young, hot American woman who is “based” and uses her sexuality and raunchy humor to get her points of view noticed by the type of users that Lemmy attracts.

Whether that person is the actual person behind the screen or a character they made up, who knows? But the character outline is very clear from her posts.

fedinsfw is the new instance I’ve heard.

Tbh, I’ve mostly seen bots posting though, so maybe I’m not in the right spot myself lol

I don’t care that she’s horny - as I said, I wasn’t critiquing her. Her posts have a very particular flavor, so to speak, and it does revolve around her personality first and foremost. You immediately know what type of person that user is trying to portray when you look at the user history.