The first time I allowed myself to wear a dress when I first saw myself in the mirror as a woman I immediately understood how it feels to identify with your body. Before I would always say I am not a body I only inhabit it. But as soon as I could see myself as a woman something clicked in my brain and for the first time I felt like I was that body. Before that I didn’t even know that was something one could feel. So at least for me gender is very real.
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Europe@feddit.org•France: working with allies on plan should US make move on GreenlandEnglish
61·16 days ago“Our currently best plan is to lay on our backs, spread our limbs, and pretend to be dead.” - EU, probably.
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Memes@lemmy.ml•"But why? You can just do that with a <big tech company> account."
13·26 days agoMy home server is my pet! Yesterday I migrated my nextcloud from docker compose to kubernetes (k3s). That’s like playing with your cat or taking the dog for a walk.
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Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world•Some people prefer corn for some ungodly reason
65·1 month agoI always replace onions with fennel in every recipe. I have yet to find one where that wasn’t an instant improvement. I honestly don’t understand why people eat onions when fennel exists.
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No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Is there a real, actually working way to earn money online without having a job?
91·1 month agoIn order to make money you need to sell something for more than its production costs you. You can either sell something at a small margin to a lot of people or something at a big margin to a few. Selling at a small margin to few people doesn’t make you a living and selling at a big margin to a lot of people just isn’t possible. Selling at a big margin to a few people means you need to find a specific community, become a part of this community and sell something to them they want enough to justify the price. Furry porn would e.g. fall in this category. Alternatively you can sell at a small margin to a lot of people. In this case you need to find a bland and generic product so it appeals to a lot of people, and find a method to produce it so cheaply that other people can’t easily undercut your price, and finally find a spin to advertise it to a majority. In this category are all “livestyle products” that sell to underclass white people the idea they’d belong to the middle class. Also selling mainstream books and music would fall under this category.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What 'bad' movie could you fix with a simple casting change?
3·1 month agoI keep saying Reloaded and Revolution would make one great sequel if you cut all the crap out. As they are the scenes are just a little too long and there’s too much gratuitous fighting. But there are enough great ideas for one great movie, just not two.

Unfortunately I can’t help you there. I still remember wanting to dress super cutely feminine only to look into a mirror and find myself too masculine to pull it off and sadly changing to wear something else. Or the first time I tried to wear heels only to get scared after a few steps outside and hurry back inside to change. Only facial feminisation surgery did it for me and now I know I pass.