• YappyMonotheist@lemmy.world
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    3 days ago

    At least half of the things in the pic are things I would definitely avoid in a partner (“baby daddies”, revealing clothes, not mom/wife material, girlboss, dislikes God [big show of ungratefulness], has a male bff but no female friends, etc), and I’m pretty sure the vast majority of men would also (barring parts of the West but one city in India is as populated as half of the Western world so 🤷). I still wouldn’t complain about it or take the time to draw and do all of this, it’s not like they’re gonna randomly change their lives after seeing that pic, I’d rather just continue avoiding these women like I always have the same way women do with undesirable men.

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          2 days ago

          At least half of the things in the pic are things I would definitely avoid in a partner (“baby daddies”, revealing clothes, not mom/wife material, girlboss, dislikes God [big show of ungratefulness], has a male bff but no female friends, etc)

          Some of those things are just women being women. They come with kids from previous relationships sometimes. Sometimes they wear revealing clothing because it’s hot out. Disliking god is a show of ungratefulness? Seriously? Has male friends?

          You’re really showing your character that you’re an insecure man who needs someone they can control. They can’t dress how they want to, be friends with who they want to, or believe in who they want to. They must fit your narrow worldview or else they aren’t worthy for your praise.

          It’s pretty gross.